This is all about my journey to (finally) becoming a wife to my fiancée (whom I'll refer to as Mr. H). This isn't about winning awards or being recognized as a "must read blog". It's to keep my out of towners, family, besties and everyone else in the loop, being able to share in the happiness (and stress) of planning a wedding, to document the process so that I can remember it clearly later on, and hopefully helping some other brides-to-be along the way.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Time for Our Love

It's funny how my MOH really knows me. Not the usual what's my favorite color, or my favorite drink of choice. But she really knows me..... She knows that I want to make my wedding feel special to everyone that attends. She also knows how much I really love Mr. H and how important it is for us to have 'husband and wife time" during the wedding. So without having even asked, we were at lunch last Saturday and were talking about wedding seating. (I'm not doing assigned seating so my guests can sit where they want, but there will be a few reserved tables for immediate family.)

I asked her about bridal seating cause one thing I do know is that I DON'T want a bridal table. Our bridal party should not have to be on display while they are eating. So she says why don't you add another reserved table and put all of us at it so that we're all in one place at the same time and available for whatever else we may have to do. And then, before I can speak, she tells me that we SHOULDN'T be at the reserved table but at a single table, just the two of us. I was astonished because I had always loved the idea of a sweetheart table, but didn't want to be selfish and have Mr. H all to my self for the meal. 

After talking to my MOH and mother, then Mr. H, it's official. WE ARE HAVING A SWEETHEART TABLE!!!! This idea brings up many images that I've just got to share:






Not quite sure about the decor for the seats or tables, that will still go with the shabby chic style of the wedding, but that will all work itself out in time.....

Well now that I've done my blog, I'm off to watch the King's Speech and lay on the couch, since I've got a nasty cough/congestion/flu thing that I cannot shake. Took another day off work and now time to rest so that I can go back on Thursday!!!

Do you secretly have a seating idea that you want to do but now sure if it's the right thing for you wedding? Ask those who know you best and come up with a solution because it could be the very thing that winds up happening!!!

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